Do you really love him/her enough?
We would love to convince ourselves that we are really in love with that person we plan to marry but sometimes we are not really being truthful. This is a point where we should be honest to ourselves. Is this love you profess really enough to endure all life throws your way. Ask yourself what you really love about him/ her, make a list of all the things you love and do not love about him and then think of how much of those things you don't love that you can tolerate and to what extent. This little exercise will give you a glimpse of what you would live with and if you can tolerate a lot of the annoying things about him/her, then you may just love him/her enough.
Do you think it is important to be very much in love when you get married or just get married and then let the love grow? Let us know what you think.